time management – Bonnie Ross Parker

Tomorrow Starts Now

In a moment of brilliance (at least, I thought so) I got to thinking about how every minute, every thought and action collectively creates tomorrow! There really isn’t a break in time from one moment to the next. Life is a continuous cycle. Man created a ‘calendar’ with its defining segments so we can keep track. Reality is, however, that our week, for example, doesn’t actually ‘stop’ at midnight on Saturday evening and ‘resume’ a moment later with a new day we label Sunday!

What are you doing now (aside from reading this blog)? What are you thinking? What is your plan for the day? What action(s) are you intending as today’s hours pass by? If you accept that, in fact, the tomorrow you face is actually the result of what is going on in your life, you just might consider the consequences of everything you think and do.

For example. Are you honoring your commitments? Are you taking care of your health? Are you valuing your relationships? Are you serving others? Are you living in integrity? Do you believe you make a difference? If your answers to these questions fill your heart with joy and well being, then you are truly insuring that tomorrow will bring you even more fulfillment.

What does it take to insure that your ‘tomorrow’ is what you want it to be? Live with the end in mind. Know who you are. Know what you want. Be willing to do the work to get the results you deserve. Life is a gift. It’s not an accident. We didn’t create it. We got it for free. The question is this. How much do you really value the gift of life? What can you do now and in the days ahead to insure your life plays out with overflowing gratitude? Be blessed. Bless others. You are worthy of amazing tomorrows. It really is in your hands. Be all you can be!

I welcome your comments, feedback. Do you have a different spin on this? Share it in the comments below!

Happy New Year: We All Need A 25 Hour Day!

Why does time management continue to be an ongoing topic? Why have literally hundreds of books and articles been written on the ‘how to’ of managing one’s time? What will it take to finally come up with a working solution to the never ending struggle of getting everything we want to accomplish done in the time allotted? We all know the scenario – time for family, work, personal space, recreation, spirituality, community and so on. We’ve all seen the pie graphically divided into pieces and regretfully acknowledged which pieces take up the greatest percentage of our lives and which need improvement. I suspect that were we to vote collectively, work would win hands down as to which part of the day consumes us the most.

As for me, there is no good news or revelation. There’s nothing I’ve discovered to insure your success in having a balanced life or that you will stick to your priorities and feel better about the way your time is spent. Of course, I can say to myself, “I’m determined to give more time to my family as they are my #1 priority.” Or, “No matter what, I’m exercising every day with no excuses.” The truth is, managing time is easy to say and difficult to achieve. If it were easy, we wouldn’t need to dwell on finding solutions. Would an extra hour in the day really be the answer? Not likely!

What can I possibly share with you to shed light on this topic? Having tried a variety of different approaches over the years, the strategy that helps me the most is being a ‘list person’. In order to complete what I want to accomplish daily, weekly and monthly, I write tasks down and check them off when finished. My motto, “If you want something done, you have to do it or hire someone else!” Not only does my list include everything related to work, I also identify work out days, time w/friends, family and time for myself By getting into the routine of writing commitments down, it quickly becomes obvious what is and isn’t getting done.

For me, this one step of writing plans down – ‘The List’ frees me up to focus what I need to. You have to start somewhere. Otherwise, the circle never stops – no time – out of balance – stress – and everything else that gets in the way from being in control. While we all could use an extra hour every day, the real issue is not more time, it’s time better spent. If you think making lists and delegating will help you be more productive, give either or both a try. What have you got to lose when, in fact, you just might find the extra hour you so desperately need? It’s a New Year. Make finding that extra hour part of your resolutions. You never know the outcome unless you give it a try!