We are all facing such an uncertain time. Many of us are feeling separated, isolated and alone as the virus continues to show its ugliness and perseverance. Family and friends seem to be the most pressing need right now. To feel and be connected – to know that those we love are safe, willing to be diligent and patient are reassurance we all crave.
All I have to do is place a call, make a visit or ask for what I need! Friendship is all about being there for one another. Likewise, when a friend calls upon me, I feel special knowing my companionship and my time are valued. Sharing experiences with friends makes events more memorable and circumstances more tolerable. Knowing someone cares about my well-being and to express my concern in return is indicative of a priceless relationship.
Having a conversation that creates clarity when uncertain about an issue makes it easier to decide what to do. Friendship has no time constraint and no limits. Years pass and yet friends have the ability to re-connect and re-establish their relationship in an instant. Distance is not a barrier to friendship. People move, jobs change, unexpected circumstances occur and friends can still remain friends. What a wonderful concept! In a rapidly changing world it’s reassuring to know that friendships can endure. Neither politics, the economy, or the weather can replace an enduring friendship.
Recently I received a call from a long-standing friend whose husband is not well. Although we don’t see one another often because of geographic limitations, she knew when I picked up the phone that she could count on me to listen and support her as she struggles through a stressful time.
Frequently friends just need a listening ear, a caring heart, and warm reassurance. Sometimes a friend is excited to share good fortune. There are times when a conversation or visit with a close friend is just the prescription we need when feeling out of sorts. Each of us has a never ending capacity to love and to care. We have unlimited opportunities to be supportive wherever and whenever someone needs us. Having friends and being a friend are priceless gifts we give to each other. Call or visit someone today. You never know who needs you at this very moment. You never know how a friend can fill a void in your life just by hearing his or her familiar voice. Two gifts you can count on forever – being a friend and having friends.
This is beautiful Bonnie and so moving. This virus has made us call and message family and friends more to keep in touch. In January a family we didn’t even know we had from Poland contacted us. They are putting together a genealogy book of our families and were looking up some family members here in the USA. They found the obituary of our aunt Sister Agnelle and contacted the funeral home and the funeral home contacted us. It is wonderful to communicate with our family there.